Discover How To Generate Positivism At All Times…
How This Simple Trick Helped Me Change My Life and Always Remain Positive
Nick Harding | Learning Mind
I have learned ways to help myself remain positive in this life, this world, which is so filled with trials and pain. In this article, I will share my secrets for smiling, laughing, and singing my way through the mud. It is impossible to explain my life or how I got to where I am without sounding like I’m complaining. Life is hard; we’ve all struggled through parts of it, and with people who are a part of it. We’ve all undergone tribulations to test our strength and character, and many of us have failed and risen damaged.
Every person you know and every person you will meet is facing some form of challenge – not one day goes by without something (which can be construed as) bad happening in some facet of life. Those who know me the best fully realize how bad my life has been, how hard other people have made it for me, why I loathe hypocrisy, and how much pain I subconsciously and consciously create for myself. I don’t allow anyone to feel bad for me because of it – I ensure that the only negative energy I instill in people is envy.
Envy for how I continue on, keep smiling, keep singing, and rarely feel crushed by burden…anger…sorrow…fear… Attitude and Perspective In a previous article of mine, Create Your Own Reality by Grasping These Three Important Concepts, I make two highly relevant statements. “We are what we believe we are”, and “If you are happy inside, if you know you are where you want to be, if you know what you want out of life, and remain confident that you will attain it, you will.
” Your reality is a reflection of what you have built in your mind – be happy, and your reality will become happy. Life and all we do are a matter of perspective; we can find the bad things in any circumstance if we look because they will be there. We will always see what we look for, and if your attitude has you looking for the negative aspect of any circumstance, you will find negativity. Always accentuate the positive and hold the silver lining close to your heart; the human psyche has a tendency to hold on to the pain we’ve witnessed and bore, we all have a tendency to put the negative in the open, for many reasons, and it is paramount that you fight this tendency.
Be happy in attitude and perspective, and you may just find that the life you live is far better than some of those around you. If you fail at something, you haven’t failed, you have only learned. You have learned the wrong way to do something, move forward, and don’t listen to anybody who tries to tell you that you are less of a person or less intelligent than them. Even the foremost specialists were beginners at one point; learn to learn, not to quit, and be happy with your mistakes. “Our lives are just what we believe them to be. Perspective is the key. Some may say that clouds block the warmth of the sun, while, in reality, they allow us to painlessly observe the magnificence, beauty, and light of all life…” – Nicholas Harding Redundant Affirmation, Mantras, DBT There is a practice of therapy which is used widely these days for multiple reasons, primarily helping those with hardships in a social environment and depression, referred to as dialectic behavior therapy. The premise of the theory behind this is regarding attitude and perspective to some extent but is reinforced by verbal statements and self-empowering thoughts. When you